SOME TYPICAL INDICATIONS OF ABUSE

Remember that every child is unique and it is difficult to predict how their behaviour will change as a result of their experience of abuse.  The impact of abuse is likely to be affected by their age, the nature and extent of the abuse and the help and support they receive.  There are some behaviours that are commonly seen in children but remember they may only give an indication and not confirmation.

¨      Unexplained or suspicious injuries such as bruising, bites or burns, particularly if situated on a part of the body not normally prone to such injuries.

¨      The child says that she or he is being abused, or another person says they believe (or know) that abuse is occurring.

¨      The child has an injury for which the explanation seems inconsistent or which has not been adequately treated.

¨      The child’s behaviour changes, either over time or quite suddenly, or he or she becomes quiet and withdrawn, or alternatively becomes aggressive.

¨      The child appears not to trust particular adults, a parent or coach with whom he or she would be expected to have, or once had, a close relationship.

¨      An inability to make close friends.

¨      A deterioration in physical appearance or rapid weight gain/loss.

¨      Pain or itching, bruising or bleeding in or near genital area.

¨      Inappropriate sexual awareness or behaviour for the child’s age.

Bear in mind that physically disabled children and children with learning difficulties are particularly vulnerable to abuse and may have added difficulties in communicating what is happening to them.